'I picked up my bags and left': Shy 21-year-old salesgirl keeps getting unfairly reprimanded by her older manager, so she quits on the spot

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    Font - Posted by u/wabi_sabi_tears 3 days ago My manger started screaming at me so I picked up my bags and left.
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    Font - Hello, I am 21f and I was working as a sales girl in a store. We are one of the branches of our main showroom so we have three staffs out of which one of them is our incharge/manager. She is 30f.
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    Font - Now, when I first joined my work let's say it was okay. Things were okay between all of the staffs but my manger soon started gossiping and back biting about the other staff who works with us. Not gonna lie it helped me built a prejudice against the other staff but later I started working on it
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    Font - and we became good friends. My manger just lives above the building of our showroom so she goes to her house a lot sometimes from 1-2 hours. We also have an office kitchen at the upper floor of the building.
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    Font - So we are an optical and we sell glasses and she is also the technician who makes the glasses. Our lunch starts from 11:30-2:00 and w have a timetable for who cooks lunch, but the manger leaves to make lunch around 10:00 or 10:39 and does not return by 12:00. One day we got an order around 10:20
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    Font - something to make glasses and she was upstairs making lunch. I took the glasses upstairs since our lab is also there she started scolding me saying it's lunch time why did I bring the glasses right now and all that.
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    Font - So the other time when the same thing happened she scolded me asking me why I didn't bring the glasses upstairs. Now I always have to walk on eggshells around her, I wish the other staff and her good morning whenever we come to work and when I wish her
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    Font - if she is in a bad mood she makes the atmosphere so awkward by not replying so I stopped doing that. So, the same thing happened today, she left around 10:55 to make lunch she knew customer where there because they came the moment she left. So me and
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    Font - the staff had no idea what to do because last time I got scolded. So we decided to wait for her to come. She came at around 12:10 and when she saw that there was an order she asked us when did we got it we were honest and said after you
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    Font - left. The other staff went to eat lunch and she just started screaming at me. Saying it's my responsibility to bring it up and that I don't do any work around she has to clean everything (I mean she does help with the cleaning sometimes) and she
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    Font - has to deal with the customer always (she comes in between me and the customer when I am trying to talk) she called her friend another staff who is in another branch and started telling her I have an attitude problem and I don't even talk when she asks me
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    Font - something (I don't because the last time I did that she said I was talking back to her) But she just started screaming and going off and started talking about me in her local language that I just stood up and took my bag and left.
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    Font - I messaged my head incharge who is in the main showroom and told her I am quitting and all and she said. to work till the end of this month which I refused and she told me to talk with the oqner once since we have to put in a two month notice.
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    Font - So, I want to ask what should I do and say when I meet with the owner who is out of station right now but will contact me once she is back? Sorry if there is any mistake, English is really not my first language.
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    Font - Neophyte Builder . 3 days ago Just state your reasons calmly, if the manager interrupts, do not argue back. Do not reply to the manager, just ask the owner if you can finish your explanation. Most likely,
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    Font - the manager will start to get angry and shout. A perfect time for you to say to the owner that this is how your manager behaves on a regular basis.
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    Happy - Safety Man35. 3 days ago You don't need to be nervous. The worst thing they can do is yell at you (who demonstrates your point) or fire you (you already quit). You hold all the cards here.
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    Font - Prepare some notes ahead of time and read them. Be succinct and factual don't include assumptions and try not to include your feelings. (Ex I feel that is disrespectful).
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    Font - RawrTobi 2 days ago Honestly, that's life some one is always gonna be a bully. My suggestion is now is a good time to start getting a backbone.
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    Font - bunnie444 3 days ago nah don't come back. i would've walked out too!!!! the manager keeps changing the rules and no one should be screamed at constantly at work like that. very poor leadership.

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